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The Fire It Up Couples Retreat to build and enhance healthy, thriving relationships

October 26-November 2, 2024

Take Your Relationship

On The Adventure of a Lifetime

Reconnection. Adventure. Romance.

The Fire It Up Couples Retreat in Tuscany to Bring You and Your Relationship to Places You

Have Only Dreamed Of.

October 26th-November 2nd, 2024. 

You are missing each other and the relationship you used to have.

It has been nothing but work, adult life and stress for far too long.

You're more like co-workers than the passionate best friends you used to be.


You're worn out from the weight of adult life and crave meaning and connection with each other.


You need to get back to what you love about each other and your life together.

Enjoy a luxurious couples experience, curated to build the most incredible relationship imaginable.




You will learn, grow, adventure, laugh, connect, and relax with a small group of couples all wanting to create more joy in their relationship.

Each experience will deepen your relationship while enjoying a fun, relaxing and romantic vacation in one of the most beautiful places in the world.

A villa 14km outside of Florence will be your home for the week. Nestled in the Tuscan hillside, you will have the quiet and space to relax and learn. Gourmet Italian food prepared by a local chef will fuel and inspire you. 


You will adventure to a natural thermal spa, be guided through some of Florence's best art and history, and travel to three wineries to taste the best of Italian olive oil and wine over a delicious meal. All this while I guide you through the most powerful exercises you never knew you needed to deepen and transform your relationship.


You will play. You will reconnect. You will grow and deepen your relationship.

You will eat pasta. Lots and lots of pasta.

The ultimate luxury couples retreat for only six couples. 


Why a Secure Connections Couples Retreat can help

Our retreats are based on the work of Stan Tatkin, PsyD., founder of the Psychobiological Approach to Couple Therapy (PACT). PACT is an approach that integrates neuroscience, arousal regulation, and attachment theory to help couples better understand their patterns of relating and how to support each other more successfully.


Secure Connections Couples Retreats are opportunities to spend time creating the relationship you want while learning from other couples and practicing new ways of communication and connection. These powerful weekends  - often held at the Sleeping Lady Resort near Leavenworth, WA - are in incredible locations, where the learning is enhanced by activities that allow you to connect, relax and have fun together. The investment in your relationship will create lasting change and shared memories that carry you forward together with a stronger commitment and set of skills to face future challenges.


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